Ultimate intimacy is a moment in time where two people share every area of their existence and are in complete synergy. They have mutual love, trust and understanding and have reached a place of total nakedness in every sense of the word. No secrets exists between them not in the least and they are fully aware of every situation and circumstance the other person is dealing with and have come to terms with shifting personas, attitudes, mood swings and environmental, and socioeconomic factors that have a direct effect on their partner. They have come to mutually accept each other for what they are and have formed a bond that is so organic that they have become one person so to speak. Each of them being completely independent and also completely dependent on one another at the same time and without competition.
The only and perfect example in this is the relationship of what we call the Holy Trinity. This is the relationship between God the Father, God the Christ and God the Spirit as explained in the Christian theology. Three distinct persons but still one person in three. The human mind cannot comprehend this phenomena as it is spiritually understood but God's secrets are revealed in his creation. He created human beings to experience what he as God is experiencing on a moment by moment basis. However, in order for such to take place the fabric of all creation has to be woven with love. Love, that magic ingredient and the most powerful force in all the universe that is not selfish, greedy or manipulative. Love that is not based on fear of rejection or loosing control. That love that is not about receiving but focuses on giving and that love that is not about self but about the beloved. That is the love that will and can take any human being into the ultimate intimacy experience.
I must confess that on this earth very few people ever experience this and that small number still only experience it momentarily as the weaknesses of the flesh means it is a learning and growing experience.
This is because we are yet to know ourselves fully and it is only when we ourselves have known who we truly are that we can find room to want to get to know another human being fully. As no one on earth really fully know themselves we are all handicapped in getting to know each other. Love as I have stated is the only method of knowing one's self through getting to know another person. The wise ones will tell you to observe your self on a moment by moment basis as you relate to your environment and you will learn a whole lot about your loves, hates, fears, likes, dislikes, strengths, weaknesses etc. It is when we choose to love that we learn so much about who we truly are. Ultimate intimacy starts with knowing yourself. Be intimate with yourself first then you will be confident enough to allow another stranger to get under your skin.
We all want to appear strong and in control and we do not want others to see our crazy and vulnerable side but God knows that when we come to terms with all our oddities and accept ourselves 'warts and all' then we can love others the same way. Any such persons that come together will get to experience what true love is.
We spend too much of our time thinking we are not good enough, beautiful, smart, spiritual intellectual or rich enough and we find the same faults in our partners and so we do not want to accept them because we have not accepted ourselves yet. Not many people will get there because of fear of what they will discover about themselves but take my advice it is worth it. William Shakespeare was on to something when he wrote, "to thyself be true".
Stop making excuses and blaming others or things for your choices and take a journey of discovery. Get to know who you truly are by asking yourself the difficult questions and not being afraid of the answers that come back to you. Embrace them as your learning experience and change those that you do not desire to keep, but remember they were all your decisions so live with what you have chosen. Wake up each day expecting to discover a new thing about yourself and before you go to sleep, spend time reviewing what you have discovered about yourself. Meditate on what it all means and make plans concerning improvements or embracing your new discovery.
Allow yourself to be you and love yourself. Stop pretending to yourself for that is the greatest deceit of them all. Soon you will realize that people will love you just the way you are when you are your real self and those who don't will fall off your radar anyway. You will soon discover a huge weight has fallen off your shoulder and that you now have wings to fly. You will discover the open secret which is that people love those who love themselves. Now its time to give forward by doing to others what you have just done for your self. Allow!
The only and perfect example in this is the relationship of what we call the Holy Trinity. This is the relationship between God the Father, God the Christ and God the Spirit as explained in the Christian theology. Three distinct persons but still one person in three. The human mind cannot comprehend this phenomena as it is spiritually understood but God's secrets are revealed in his creation. He created human beings to experience what he as God is experiencing on a moment by moment basis. However, in order for such to take place the fabric of all creation has to be woven with love. Love, that magic ingredient and the most powerful force in all the universe that is not selfish, greedy or manipulative. Love that is not based on fear of rejection or loosing control. That love that is not about receiving but focuses on giving and that love that is not about self but about the beloved. That is the love that will and can take any human being into the ultimate intimacy experience.
I must confess that on this earth very few people ever experience this and that small number still only experience it momentarily as the weaknesses of the flesh means it is a learning and growing experience.
This is because we are yet to know ourselves fully and it is only when we ourselves have known who we truly are that we can find room to want to get to know another human being fully. As no one on earth really fully know themselves we are all handicapped in getting to know each other. Love as I have stated is the only method of knowing one's self through getting to know another person. The wise ones will tell you to observe your self on a moment by moment basis as you relate to your environment and you will learn a whole lot about your loves, hates, fears, likes, dislikes, strengths, weaknesses etc. It is when we choose to love that we learn so much about who we truly are. Ultimate intimacy starts with knowing yourself. Be intimate with yourself first then you will be confident enough to allow another stranger to get under your skin.
We all want to appear strong and in control and we do not want others to see our crazy and vulnerable side but God knows that when we come to terms with all our oddities and accept ourselves 'warts and all' then we can love others the same way. Any such persons that come together will get to experience what true love is.
We spend too much of our time thinking we are not good enough, beautiful, smart, spiritual intellectual or rich enough and we find the same faults in our partners and so we do not want to accept them because we have not accepted ourselves yet. Not many people will get there because of fear of what they will discover about themselves but take my advice it is worth it. William Shakespeare was on to something when he wrote, "to thyself be true".
Stop making excuses and blaming others or things for your choices and take a journey of discovery. Get to know who you truly are by asking yourself the difficult questions and not being afraid of the answers that come back to you. Embrace them as your learning experience and change those that you do not desire to keep, but remember they were all your decisions so live with what you have chosen. Wake up each day expecting to discover a new thing about yourself and before you go to sleep, spend time reviewing what you have discovered about yourself. Meditate on what it all means and make plans concerning improvements or embracing your new discovery.
Allow yourself to be you and love yourself. Stop pretending to yourself for that is the greatest deceit of them all. Soon you will realize that people will love you just the way you are when you are your real self and those who don't will fall off your radar anyway. You will soon discover a huge weight has fallen off your shoulder and that you now have wings to fly. You will discover the open secret which is that people love those who love themselves. Now its time to give forward by doing to others what you have just done for your self. Allow!
